How to Tutor your child
- Posted by admin in children |
- March 15th, 2010 |
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Many children struggle in school; and since there have been so many cutbacks in education, teachers are often overloaded with students and can’t spend much time helping each individual child. Since we all want our children to succeed, we need to ensure that they are doing their best and getting the best encouragement from us.
Since teachers are short on time they can spend on the individual student at school, you could go to the school and volunteer your time there at regular intervals. But this will not really help YOUR child since you have to help all the others as well. Most parents also don’t have the time to spend at school regularly and some schools might even discourage this kind of solution. Since there have to be regular one-on-one sessions to ensure thorough absorption of the materials taught, this option is not a good one.
A better option would be to hire a high school or college student to tutor your child if you don’t have time to do the job yourself. Before hiring a student, make sure you see an official transcript to ensure that the student has the skills required to teach your child. Also try to hire a student of the same sex as your child since then there will be no inter-sex tension, which can be a real issue with kids/teenagers. Set up a few probation tutor sessions where you can watch and check if you agree with the teaching methods and the materials being taught. If you don’t like the tutor or don’t feel confident about their abilities get a different one, even if you don’t feel happy to disappoint them. You and your child have to be able to trust your tutor or else the learning environment is not a good one.
If you want to tutor your own child, this is a suggested schedule. As soon as the child gets home, tell them to try their homework on their own for as long as they can. Tell your child to do all the things that they understand and only then they should come and ask for help. After the child has solved all the problems it could, they should come to you with any questions that they may have. Offer to check over their homework, and if they get something wrong ask them questions about that particular problem to see whether the child catches the mistake. If your child doesn’t point the mistake out help them to solve the problem. Make sure your child understands the basics before moving to more complex issues. If you find out they don’t understand a concept teach it to them. It is good to use visual aids such as a chalk board or even just paper and a pencil. Make sure you repeat the essential points again at the end and ask questions to ensure your child understands. Also ensure that your child copies the concepts down so they can refer to it for help. Let them keep these aids in their binders since they will be useful for studying for a test. Then give the child time again to solve the problem on their own. Don’t just give up on them and give them the answers…remember we want to teach them how to solve the problem themselves. Once this schedule is implemented, you will see that the child needs less help as time passes. This is because the regular homework time is often enough to keep up with what the class is doing. Often children don’t do their homework and that is why they fall behind. And in the beginning when you help your child with their homework, you ensure that they know the basic concepts. If those are thoroughly understood, the rest is built on a solid foundation, and their scholarly success is assured.
So be patient, persistent and don’t spare praise. Give out special surprises when your child improves and don’t give up if you don’t see results right away. Praise your child every time they understand and apply a new concept. Also talk with the teacher to see what areas your child could improve in and help your child in those areas. Good luck and happy tutoring!